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Correspondence From an Individual in Custody

Remember those in prison as if you were their fellow prisoners, and those who are mistreated as if you yourselves were suffering. Hebrews 13:3

For about a year now, I’ve been corresponding with a guy who’s incarcerated in Illinois. His initial letter was written to the director of the prison ministry with which I volunteer and she brought the letter to my attention.

Though we've never met, I consider this man a true brother-in-Christ and think of him with great fondness.

His letters (at times, upwards of 9 pages) have successfully reached my church office and all my responses have reached him unhindered. He is a true seeker of Jesus Christ and is pro-actively looking for encouragement against great opposition. His words have been inspirational and, at times, entertaining.

We’ve kept the topics clean and informative, making much of Jesus and how he might best be a light in a dark place—on the inside and out here in the world.

I pray for him, for his family. He prays for me and my husband and our grown children.

As I write, I envision myself sitting alongside him in his cell, as though we’re talking, praying together. Lifting the veil of evil that fills that place, silencing the clang of verbal violence and reveling in the promise of scripture.

When I write, there is no wall between us.

The last letter I received arrived in a yellow envelope—same institution—only the outside of it blared a warning of sorts:

Correspondence from individual in custody.

As if to convey …. "You are receiving a letter from someone who did something terribly wrong and they are not presently safe for society. Be careful before you open it."

So … a fellow sinner saved by grace, then.

Consider the number of Holy Spirit inspired letters of Paul (formerly Saul of Tarsus, killer of Christians) he'd written while in chains for the gospel. The Lord preserved them as sacred, essential text. Bible studies, Hallmark and Dayspring cards are filled with words from that "individual in custody"!

Moved along by the holy spirit, Paul wrote to those he’d led to Jesus and urged them to stay strong. To love one another and uphold the word of truth.

God knew then that Paul's message would benefit his followers then and through the ages. His words—penned in prison—are timeless.

... profitable for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness.

II Timothy 3:16.

The fact of Paul and my friend’s imprisonment adds value because we tend to lean into God and attune our heart and mind to him more fully when circumstances have us cornered.

●As an author, I write with greater fervor under the heat of hardship. He uses those times to change me which then increases the impact of the message to my readers.

●The biblical letters from the famed Hebrew disciple, an "individual in custody", will be remembered in eternity.

●And the work God is doing in my incarcerated friend will also be celebrated long after he's gone.

On either side of the wall, may we love one another as brothers and sisters and ... remember those in prison as if we were their fellow prisoners. Hebrews 13:1, 3

Points to Ponder

1. Do you know (or have you known) anyone who's incarcerated? How does that affect your view of them?

2. When has hardship resulted in greater effectiveness of your message to others?

3. Why do you think God intended for a percentage of Paul's letters to be written while he was in custody?

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4 comentários

Katherine Pasour
Katherine Pasour
13 de fev. de 2023

One of your questions asked about hardship and how my trials may have been helpful to others. Years ago our church went through a horrific conflict. Many harsh words were exchanged and about half of our congregation left. Since that time, I've had increased leadership roles in our church and I've tried very hard to be a loving peacemaker to guide us away from (and through) conflicts with love rather than anger or verbal attacks. When we come together in love and respect, we are better able to serve our Lord. Thank you for corresponding with this man. I know your love and concern have been so meaningful for him.

Mary A. Felkins
Mary A. Felkins
13 de fev. de 2023
Respondendo a

Thank you for sharing the difficult issue you experienced in your church, Katherine. Grateful the words of kindness and peace were instrumental in resolving the issues in your church!


J.D. Wininger
J.D. Wininger
12 de fev. de 2023

You can only imagine how much this post resonated with me, and one day perhaps I'll explain the reasons why. Prison ministry is indeed a calling; and those who participate in it receive many more blessings than we get. I'm only "dipping my toes" at the moment, but I've received a great many blessings from it. I've also experienced some heartache. When we invest into others, there's always a risk it won't see fruitfulness. It's those instances that make us keep working. God's blessings ma'am. And remind your incarcerated friend that we've all be imprisoned. That's what sin is!

Mary A. Felkins
Mary A. Felkins
13 de fev. de 2023
Respondendo a

I’ll be sure to mention that truth in my next letter, JD. Thank you for sharing your thoughts 😉

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